Lesson 6: Handling Challenging Behaviors For RBTs

Lesson 6: Handling Challenging Behaviors For RBTs

Hey there, dedicated RBTs in training! Welcome back to another lesson in our English for Specific Purposes (ESP) course, customized just for you. In this session, we’re focusing on one of the most crucial—and sometimes most difficult—parts of working as an RBT: Handling Challenging Behaviors.

When you work with clients, especially those with behavioral difficulties, you’ll inevitably face challenging situations. Knowing the right terminology, communication techniques, and deescalation strategies can make a big difference. Today, I’ll guide you through professional ways to describe behaviors, strategies for deescalation, roleplaying scenarios, and more. Ready to dive in? Let’s go!

Describing Challenging Behaviors in Professional Terms

When you work in the field of behavior analysis, it’s important to use specific, professional language to describe challenging behaviors. You want to avoid emotional terms that sound judgmental or biased, like “bad” or “disobedient.”


1. Bad

2. Disobedient

3. Lazy

4. Stubborn

5. Naughty

6. Difficult

7. Defiant

8. Aggressive (without context, e.g., “The child is aggressive.”)

9. Annoying

10. Troublemaker

11. Bratty

12. Hostile (unless part of a specific clinical term like “hostile behavior” with context)

13. Uncooperative

14. Rude

15. Disrespectful

16. Rebellious

17. Impulsive (use carefully—better to describe specific behavior as “hitting” or “grabbing” rather than impulsive)

18. Angry (e.g., “The child is angry” rather than describing actions like “The child shouted.”)

19. Mean

20. Misbehaving


Using neutral, descriptive language (like “non-compliant” or “engaged in shouting”) helps avoid any assumptions or negative connotations, making it easier for others to understand the behavior objectively.

Instead, use objective, measurable descriptions. Here are some key terms you’ll use to describe behaviors you might see.


1. Non-compliant– instead of “disobedient”

2. Engaged in shouting– instead of “angry”

3. Avoided task– instead of “lazy”

4. Attempted to escape– instead of “running away”

5. Engaged in self-stimulatory behavior– instead of “acting weird”

6. Displayed resistance to instruction– instead of “stubborn”

7. Sought attention through gestures– instead of “needy”

8. Engaged in physical aggression (e.g., hitting)– instead of “hostile”

9. Used repetitive speech– instead of “annoying”

10. Expressed frustration verbally– instead of “acting out”

11. Refused to participate– instead of “rebellious”

12. Engaged in property destruction– instead of “being destructive”

13. Engaged in verbal aggression (e.g., shouting insults)– instead of “rude”

14. Displayed task avoidance– instead of “lazy”

15. Exhibited heightened movement (e.g., pacing)– instead of “restless”

16. Demonstrated non-compliance with task demand– instead of “defiant”

17. Displayed off-task behavior (e.g., looking away)– instead of “unfocused”

18. Engaged in object-throwing behavior– instead of “throwing things around”

19. Demonstrated repetitive hand-flapping– instead of “acting strangely”

20. Engaged in whining or vocal protest– instead of “complaining”

These terms focus on the specific actions the person is performing, rather than implying a judgment or making assumptions about their emotions or intentions. This language makes it easier for others to understand the observed behavior accurately and objectively.


Vocabulary Chart 1: Describing Challenging Behaviors

 Aggression: Hitting, kicking, biting, or other physical actions directed at others.

  Example: “The client demonstrated aggression by hitting his peer during the group activity.”

 Tantrum: Screaming, crying, or throwing objects, usually in response to frustration.

  Example: “The client had a tantrum when denied access to the toy.”

 Elopement: Running away from the group or the caregiver unexpectedly.

  Example: “Elopement occurred when the client left the room without permission.”

 Self-injurious behavior: Actions that harm oneself, such as biting or headbanging.

  Example: “The client engaged in selfinjurious behavior by biting his arm when he was upset.”

 Non-compliance: Refusal to follow instructions or cooperate.

  Example: “The client showed noncompliance when he did not respond to the instruction to clean up.”


When describing challenging behaviors, try to focus on what you observe rather than assuming the client’s feelings or motivations. For example, instead of saying, “The client is angry and acting out,” try, “The client demonstrated noncompliance by refusing to participate in the task.” This neutral and specific language helps everyone understand the behavior without added assumptions.

 Discussing Deescalation Techniques

When a client is having a difficult moment, your goal is to reduce their distress and prevent the behavior from escalating. As an RBT, you’ll use deescalation techniques to achieve this. Here are some techniques you might use:

1. Stay Calm and Neutral: Keep your tone soft and calm, avoiding language that could sound confrontational.

   Example: “Let’s take a break and come back to the activity later.”

2. Redirect Attention: Offer an alternative activity or focus to shift attention away from the behavior.

   Example: “Let’s go for a walk and come back to this in a few minutes.”

3. Use Simple, Direct Language: Short, clear sentences help avoid confusion and can calm the client.

   Example: “Please sit down. I will help you with this.”

4. Offer Choices: Giving the client some control through choices can reduce resistance.

   Example: “Would you like to use the red marker or the blue marker?”

5. Positive Reinforcement: Rewarding calm behavior can encourage them to continue it.

   Example: “Thank you for sitting quietly. Now we can go to the next activity.”

Roleplaying Difficult Scenarios with Appropriate Language

Practicing challenging scenarios can prepare you for reallife interactions. Let’s go through a couple of roleplay scenarios that you might face as an RBT. In each scenario, I’ll include sample phrases and responses that demonstrate polite, assertive, and calming communication.

Scenario 1: Client Refuses to Participate in a Task

Situation: The client refuses to participate in a group activity and starts to push materials away.

How You Might Respond:

 Polite but Direct: “It looks like you don’t want to do this right now. Let’s take a short break and come back to it.”

 Giving a Choice: “Would you like to try this now or in five minutes?”

 Positive Reinforcement for Compliance: “Thank you for waiting calmly. Now, let’s do this together.”

 Scenario 2: Client Becomes Aggressive When Denied Access to a Toy

Situation: The client wants a toy that is offlimits, and they start to hit when they can’t have it.

How You Might Respond:

 Remain Calm: “I understand you’re upset. Let’s take a few breaths.”

 Redirect Attention: “How about we try the puzzle instead? Then, we can think about using the toy later.”

 Set Boundaries: “Hitting isn’t safe. When you’re calm, we can play together.”

 Polite and Assertive Communication in High-Pressure Situations

When handling challenging behaviors, you need to stay polite but assertive. This balance shows respect for the client while setting clear boundaries. Here are some phrases that help convey calm, respect, and assertiveness:

 Setting Boundaries Respectfully: “I’m here to help you, but we need to keep our hands to ourselves.”

 Reaffirming Support: “I’m right here with you, and we’ll figure this out together.”

 Offering Encouragement: “Thank you for using your words. That helps me understand what you need.”

Assertive communication also helps you remain in control of the situation, showing the client that while their emotions are valid, certain behaviors are not acceptable.

 What are the Five Steps to Help You Deal with Challenging Behavior?

To handle challenging behaviors effectively, you can use these five essential steps:

1. Identify the Behavior: Describe the behavior in objective terms.

2. Determine the Function: Why is the behavior happening? Is it to get attention, escape a task, or seek sensory input?

3. Implement Prevention Strategies: Modify the environment or offer supports that may reduce the behavior.

4. Use Deescalation Techniques: Respond calmly, redirect attention, and provide choices when needed.

5. Monitor and Adjust: Keep track of how the strategies are working and make changes if necessary.

When Dealing with Challenging Behavior, What Approach Should We Take?

The best approach is always clientcentered and proactive. This means putting the client’s needs, comfort, and safety first while working to understand the behavior’s function. When you understand the function (for example, if the client is acting out to get attention or avoid a task), you can develop effective, targeted interventions.

 Example Approaches:

 For AttentionSeeking Behavior: Provide regular positive attention for desired behaviors and ignore attentionseeking behaviors.

 For Avoidance Behavior: Break tasks down into smaller, manageable steps and use reinforcement to encourage task completion.

 For Sensory Needs: If a client is engaging in behavior for sensory input, consider sensoryfriendly activities as part of their routine.

 Conclusion: Handling Challenging Behaviors Confidently

Well done! You’ve just covered a lot of ground in understanding and handling challenging behaviors. By learning how to describe behaviors objectively, use deescalation techniques, communicate assertively, and follow structured approaches, you’re already on the path to managing challenging behaviors effectively.

Remember, handling challenging behaviors requires practice and patience. You’re building skills that will empower you to make a real difference in the lives of your clients. Keep practicing these strategies, stay calm, and trust in your training. You’ve got this!

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